I think I give the impression of being a romantic, and I think inside I'm quite severe. But some might say they had the opposite impression of me.
Interpretation
This quote reflects the complexity of human personality, suggesting that people can have contrasting inner and outer selves.
Tom Stoppard's quote reveals the duality of human nature, where one's public persona may be vastly different from their internal experience. It highlights the idea that people often carry layers of complexity, leading to different perceptions from others. The reference to being both romantic and severe suggests that individuals can embody seemingly contradictory qualities, further emphasizing the nuanced nature of personality and the way we perceive ourselves versus how others perceive us.
In practice
During a psychology lecture about the duality of identity.
Love is - OK, it's 20 things, but it isn't 19. And I think that love reaches for something which is very, very deep in us and is very easily obscured, and is also very easily denied, which is the instinct towards the other person, other than toward the self.
A movie camera is like having someone you have a crush on watching you from afar - you pretend it's not there.
I once did a radio program with a famous materialist, that is to say a scientist who believed that absolutely everything was physical and that all emotions were reductive to little electrical impulses in your neurons. And I found that I didn't believe that. But what the emotions really are, I don't have an alternative theory.
One of the reasons why there are so many versions of Chekhov is that translations date in a way that the original doesn't; translations seem to be of their time.
A Chinaman of the T'ang Dynasty—and, by which definition, a philosopher—dreamed he was a butterfly, and from that moment he was never quite sure that he was not a butterfly dreaming it was a Chinese philosopher. Envy him; in his two-fold security.
Chekhov directors and Chekhov actors love working on his plays because there seems to be no end to what you can find out about the micro-narrative when you're investigating a text.
Those who were unlucky in life in spite of their skills would eventually rise. The lucky fool might have benefited from some luck in life; over the longer run he would slowly converge to the state of a less-lucky idiot. Each one would revert to his long-term properties.
If you don't know how to die, don't worry; Nature will tell you what to do on the spot, fully and adequately. She will do this job perfectly for you; don't bother your head about it.
What scares me about drone strikes is how they are perceived around the world. The resentment created by American use of unmanned strikes... is much greater than the average American appreciates. They are hated on a visceral level, even by people who've never seen one or seen the effects of one.
Where justice is denied, where poverty is enforced, where ignorance prevails, and where any one class is made to feel that society is an organized conspiracy to oppress, rob and degrade them, neither persons nor property will be safe.
Often times we call a man [or woman] cold when he [or she] is only sad.
People who have no weaknesses are terrible; there is no way of taking advantage of them.
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