Everybody must be managed. Queens must be managed. Kings must be managed, for men want managing almost as much as women, and that's saying a good deal.
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He wished she knew his impressions; but he would as soon have thought of carrying an odour in a net as of attempting to convey the intangibilities of his feeling in the coarse meshes of language. So he remained silent.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote expresses the difficulty of conveying deep emotions using words.
In this quote, Thomas Hardy illustrates the struggle one faces when trying to express profound feelings towards another person. The metaphor of carrying an odour in a net highlights the intangible and elusive nature of emotions, suggesting that language often falls short in capturing the true essence of one's feelings, leading to silence instead of expression.
Themes
EmotionsCommunicationSilenceFeelingsLanguage
In practice
Example use cases
In a romantic setting, to express the difficulty of sharing feelings.
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