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Improve relationships with others by assuming that they can hear everything you say about them
Stephen Covey
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What this quote means

Assume others can hear your words about them, which encourages respect and better communication.

This quote by Stephen Covey highlights the importance of mindful communication in our relationships. By acting as if those we're speaking about are present and listening, we become more conscious of our words, which fosters respect and understanding among individuals. It reminds us that our words can have significant impacts on our relationships, encouraging us to speak positively and constructively about others.

Themes

RelationshipsCommunicationRespectMindfulnessWords

In practice

Example use cases

In a team meeting, you might say, 'Remember, we should speak about our colleagues as if they are right here with us.'

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