You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
The individual's right to pursue his own vision of the best ration of pleasure to pain: utterly sacrosanct.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the importance of personal freedom in seeking one's own balance between pleasure and pain.
David Foster Wallace highlights the fundamental right of individuals to define and pursue their own vision of happiness, irrespective of societal norms. The idea that each person's quest for an optimal balance between pleasure and pain is 'utterly sacrosanct' suggests that this pursuit is sacred and paramount to the human experience, underscoring the value of personal autonomy and subjective well-being.
In practice
During a motivational speech about finding personal happiness.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like youβve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and itβs like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
Whether on'e special emphasis is global warming or child welfare, the cause is the same cause. And justice comes from the same place being human comes from: compassion.
The mercy of the world is you don't know what's going to happen.
Some of us still get all weepy when we think about the Gaia Hypothesis, the idea that earth is a big furry goddess-creature who resembles everybody's mom in that she knows what's best for us. But if you look at the historical record - Krakatoa, Mt. Vesuvius, Hurricane Charley, poison ivy, and so forth down the ages - you have to ask yourself: Whose side is she on, anyway?
If just once you were depressed for no reason, you have been so all your life without knowing.
Weighing benefits against costs is the way most people make decisions - and the way most businesses make decisions, if they want to stay in business. Only in government is any benefit, however small, considered to be worth any cost, however large.
The worse I am, the more I need God. I can't shut myself out from His mercy. That is what it would mean; starting a life with you, without Him. Julia to Charles
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