You can have no influence over those for whom you have underlying contempt.
Interpretation
Respect and positive feelings are essential for influence over others.
This quote by Martin Luther King, Jr. emphasizes that genuine influence and the ability to lead or guide others depend on a foundation of respect and goodwill. If you harbor contempt or disdain for others, your ability to inspire, persuade, or make a positive impact on their lives is severely diminished, as contempt breeds division and resistance.
In practice
In a team meeting where respect is lacking among members, one can reference this quote to encourage a more positive atmosphere.
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