My reaction to porno films is as follows: After the first ten minutes, I want to go home and screw. After the first twenty minutes, I never want to screw again as long as I live.
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Isn't that the problem? That women have been swindled for centuries into substituting adornment for love, fashion (as it were) for passion?
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote critiques how women have historically equated superficial beauty with genuine affection.
Erica Jong's quote highlights the societal issue of women being misled into believing that physical adornment and fashion can replace true love and emotional connection. This statement points to a deeper critique of cultural norms that place undue emphasis on external appearances rather than the authenticity of romantic relationships. Jong suggests that this pattern has persisted over centuries, leading to a misunderstanding of love's true essence.
Themes
WomenLoveFashionAdornmentPassionRelationships
In practice
Example use cases
This quote is perfect for a discussion on gender roles in a class about sociology.
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