Associate with the noblest people you can find; read the best books; live with the mighty; but learn to be happy alone.
Saul BellowRead
I've discovered that rejections are not altogether a bad thing. They teach a writer to rely on his own judgment and to say in his heart of hearts, 'To hell with you.'
Interpretation
What this quote means
Rejection can be beneficial, teaching self-reliance and inner strength.
In this quote, Saul Bellow reflects on the positive aspects of experiencing rejection, especially in the context of writing. He suggests that such experiences can foster a writer's independence and confidence, encouraging them to trust their own instincts and convictions, rather than seeking validation from others.
Themes
RejectionSelf-RelianceConfidenceWritingWisdom
In practice
Example use cases
During a writing workshop, I shared a quote about rejection to inspire fellow authors to persevere.
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