One of the great things about books is you can afford to do anything.
George R. R. MartinRead
When you have known the kiss of a flaying knife, a laugh loses all its power to hurt you.
Interpretation
Experiencing deep pain diminishes the impact of lesser hurts.
This quote suggests that enduring significant suffering can make other, lesser forms of pain seem trivial in comparison. Once one has gone through a profound challenge or trauma, they become more resilient, gaining a perspective that allows them to laugh off smaller insults or frustrations that might otherwise sting.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity.
One of the great things about books is you can afford to do anything.
I hate outlines. I have a broad sense of where the story is going; I know the end, I know the end of the principal characters, and I know the major turning points and events from the books, the climaxes for each book, but I don't necessarily know each twist and turn along the way. That's something I discover in the course of writing and that's what makes writing enjoyable. I think if I outlined comprehensively and stuck to the outline the actual writing would be boring.
There is only one god and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: βNot today.
I did not do it. Yet now I wish I had.β He turned to face the hall, that sea of pale faces. βI wish I had enough poison for you all. You make me sorry that I am not the monster you would have me be, yet there it is. I am innocent, but I will get no justice here.
But a voice inside her whispered, There are no heroes, and she remembered what Lord Petyr had said to her, here in this very hall. 'Life is not a song, sweetling,' he'd told her, 'You may learn that one day to your sorrow.' In life, the monsters win, she told herself.
I write from this tight third-person viewpoint, where each chapter is seen through the eyes of one individual character. When I'm writing that character, I become that character and identify with that character.
Condemnation without investigation is the height of ignorance
Of course I make mistakes. I'm human. If I didn't make mistakes, I'd never learn. You can only go forward by making mistakes.
We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers - but never blame yourself. It's never your fault. But it's always your fault, because if you wanted to change you're the one who has got to change.
Like other men, I have sought honours and preferment, and often have obtained them beyond my wishes or hopes. Yet never have I found in them that content which I had figured beforehand in my mind. A strong reason, if we well consider it, why we should disencumber ourselves of vain desires.
To be honest and truthful in all endeavours is an experience, not a regret
Health is the condition of wisdom, and the sign is cheerfulness, - an open and noble temper.
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