You are 27 or 28 right? It is very tough to live at that age. When nothing is sure. I have sympathy with you.
Kumiko and I felt something for each other from the beginning. It was not one of those strong, impulsive feelings that can hit two people like an electric shock when they first meet, but something quieter and gentler, like two tiny lights traveling in tandem through a vast darkness and drawing imperceptibly closer to each other as they go. As our meetings grew more frequent, I felt not so much that I had met someone new as that I had chanced upon a dear old friend.
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What this quote means
The quote expresses a deep, gentle connection between two individuals, emphasizing a calm and gradual bond rather than an overwhelming attraction.
In this quote, Haruki Murakami conveys the idea that true connections can emerge quietly over time, rather than through intense, fleeting emotions. The imagery of two lights moving together in the darkness symbolizes the gradual understanding and comfort that develop in a relationship, evoking the feeling of familiarity and warmth akin to reconnecting with an old friend. It highlights that love can be subtle and nurturing, growing in depth as two people share their lives together.
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This quote would be perfect to share at a wedding when discussing the nature of love and partnership.
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Be a force of love as often as you can and turn away negative thoughts whenever you feel them surface.
Not the bee upon the blossom, In the pride o' sunny noon; Not the little sporting fairy, All beneath the simmer moon; Not the poet, in the moment Fancy lightens in his e'e, Kens the pleasure, feels the rapture, That thy presence gi'es to me.