A Poem from Edna St. Vincent Millay: Grown-up Was it for this I uttered prayers, And sobbed and cursed and kicked the stairs, That now, domestic as a plate, I should retire at half-past eight?
l am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground. So it is, and so it will be, for so it has been, time out of mind: Into the darkness they go, the wise and the lovely. Crowned With lilies and with laurel they go; but I am not resigned.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The speaker expresses a refusal to accept the finality of death that separates loving hearts, emphasizing a longing for connection beyond life.
In this quote, Edna St. Vincent Millay grapples with the concept of love's enduring presence even in the face of mortality. The speaker showcases a deep emotional resistance to the idea that love and wisdom are lost in death, symbolized by the image of 'loving hearts' being shut away in the ground. While acknowledging that this separation is an inevitable truth, she expresses her defiance and desire to maintain a connection with those who have passed, highlighting the importance of love as a force that transcends the physical realm.
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Example use cases
In a eulogy, one might say this quote to express how love endures even after death.
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