I am a person who continually destroys the possibilities of a future because of the numbers of alternative viewpoints I can focus on the present.
Doris LessingRead
At last I understood that the way over, or through this dilemma, the unease at writing about 'petty personal problems' was to recognize that nothing is personal, in the sense that it is uniquely one's own. Writing about oneself, one is writing about others, since your problems, pains, pleasures, emotions—and your extraordinary and remarkable ideas—can't be yours alone. [...] Growing up is after all only the understanding that one's unique and incredible experience is what everyone shares.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote suggests that personal experiences are universal and shared among people, highlighting the interconnectedness of human emotions and struggles.
Doris Lessing reflects on the realization that individual experiences, often perceived as unique and personal, resonate with the broader human experience. Writing about one's own issues is not just a solitary endeavor; it connects with others who share similar feelings and challenges. The essence of growing up lies in understanding that what we perceive as our distinct problems are actually part of a collective journey, emphasizing empathy and shared humanity.
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UniversalExperienceSharedEmotionsWritingGrowthUnderstanding
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a motivational speech about the importance of empathy.
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