When the sage points at the moon, all that the idiot sees is the finger.
Anthony De MelloRead
Life is easy, life is delightful. It's only hard on your illusions, your ambitions, your greed, your cravings.
Interpretation
Life can be enjoyed if we let go of unrealistic expectations and desires.
Anthony De Mello suggests that the challenges of life stem from our own illusions, ambitions, and cravings rather than from life itself. By recognizing that our difficulties often arise from our desires and unrealistic expectations, we can find a path to a more serene and pleasurable existence.
In practice
During a motivational speech about personal growth.
When the sage points at the moon, all that the idiot sees is the finger.
Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love there are no demands, no expectations, no dependency. I do not demand that you make me happy; my happiness does not lie in you. If you were to leave me, I will not feel sorry for myself; I enjoy your company immensely, but I do not cling.
The master never seemed to have his fill of gazing at his firstborn child. "What do you want him to be when he grows up?" someone asked. "Outrageously happy," said the master.
The genius of a composer is found in the notes of his music; but analyzing the notes will not reveal his genius. The poet's greatness is contained in his words; yet the study of his words will not disclose his inspiration. God reveals himself in creation; but scrutinize creation as minutely as you wish, you will not find God, any more than you will find the soul through careful examination of your body.
What is a loving heart? A loving heart is sensitive to the whole of life, to all persons; a loving heart doesn't harden itself to any persons or things.
Problems only exist in the human mind.
You can live your whole life in your brain and not experience what's around you. You go crazy that way. That's why I have to watch myself when I get isolated for too long.
Some fairy tales end with the girl marrying the prince... some start there.
Life is a mirror: if you frown at it, it frowns back; if you smile, it returns the greeting.
The trick is to age honestly and gracefully and make it look great, so that everyone looks forward to it.
Remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all Iβve taken for granted.
Wherever life takes us, there are always moments of wonder.
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