Falling in love is not an extension of one's limits or boundaries; it is a partial and temporary collapse of them.
M. Scott PeckRead
All my life I used to wonder what I would become when I grew up. Then, about seven years ago, I realized that I was never going to grow up--that growing is an ever ongoing process.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Growing is a continuous journey rather than a final destination.
This quote by M. Scott Peck emphasizes the idea that personal growth is not confined to a specific age or phase of life. Instead, it is a lifelong process where individuals continually learn, evolve, and adapt, highlighting the importance of embracing change and self-discovery throughout one's life.
Themes
GrowthProcessLifeChangeLearning
In practice
Example use cases
In a personal development seminar to inspire attendees about lifelong learning.
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Idealists are people who believe in the potential of human nature for transformation. . . . The most essential attribute of human nature is its mutability and freedom from instinct . . . it is always within our power to change our nature. So it is actually the idealists who are on the mark and the realists who are off base.
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