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Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Buddha
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Holding on to anger harms the person who is angry more than the target of that anger.

This quote by Buddha emphasizes the self-destructive nature of anger. When one clings to feelings of anger, they are only hurting themselves, much like how grasping a hot coal causes burns to the hand rather than harming the intended target. Therefore, it's essential to let go of anger for one's own peace and well-being.

Themes

AngerForgivenessPeaceSelf-HarmLetting Go

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational speech on emotional intelligence, this quote can be used to highlight the importance of managing one's emotions.

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