You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I knew my limitations and the limitations of the courts I played on, and adjusted thusly. I was at my best in bad conditions.
Interpretation
Recognizing and adapting to one's limitations can lead to success even in challenging situations.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace reflects on the importance of self-awareness and adaptability. He acknowledges his own limitations as well as those of his environment, suggesting that truly successful individuals learn to navigate through difficulties and still perform at their best, even when conditions are not ideal. This mindset encourages resilience and the ability to thrive despite obstacles.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like youβve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and itβs like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
I was able to see faith as more than just a comfort to the weary or a hedge against death; rather, it was an active, palpable agent in the world.
Everything has its wonders, even darkness and silence, and I learn, whatever state I may be in, therein to be content.
How many people have been thus led, through lack of self-confidence, to stifle their most justified doubts?
I wonder what becomes of lost opportunities? Perhaps our guardian angel gathers them up as we drop them, and will give them back to us in the beautiful sometime when we have grown wiser, and learned how to use them rightly.
I think of the trees and how simply they let go, let fall the riches of a season, how without grief (it seems) they can let go and go deep into their roots for renewal and sleep.... Imitate the trees. Learn to lose in order to recover, and remember that nothing stays the same for long, not even pain, psychic pain. Sit it out. Let it all pass. Let it go.
In a neighborhood, as in life, a clean bandage is much, much better than a raw or festering wound.
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