You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
David Foster WallaceRead
I knew my limitations and the limitations of the courts I played on, and adjusted thusly. I was at my best in bad conditions.
Interpretation
Recognizing and adapting to one's limitations can lead to success even in challenging situations.
In this quote, David Foster Wallace reflects on the importance of self-awareness and adaptability. He acknowledges his own limitations as well as those of his environment, suggesting that truly successful individuals learn to navigate through difficulties and still perform at their best, even when conditions are not ideal. This mindset encourages resilience and the ability to thrive despite obstacles.
In practice
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity.
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
Everything in my own immediate experience supports my deep belief that I am the absolute center of the universe, the realest, most vivid and important person in existence.
It seems important to find ways of reminding ourselves that most 'familiarity' is meditated and delusive.
Under fun's new administration, writing fiction becomes a way to go deep inside yourself and illuminate precisely the stuff you don't want to see or let anyone else see, and this stuff usually turns out (paradoxically) to be precisely the stuff all writers and readers share and respond to, feel.
Acceptance is usually more a matter of fatigue than anything else.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like you’ve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and it’s like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
To learn to concentrate we must choose a prayer or meditation and follow this path with commitment and steadiness, a willingness to work with our practice day after day, no matter what arises.
As mankind grew obsessed with its hours, the sorrow of lost time became a permanent hole in the human heart. People fretted over missed chances, over inefficient days; they worried constantly about how long they would live, because counting life’s moments had led, inevitably, to counting them down. Soon, in every nation and in every language, time became the most precious commodity.
Know how to keep anticipation alive: always strive to feed it, by letting the much promise more, and the one achievement be the announcement only of a greater. Put not all your reserves into the first throw; the great trick is to dole out strength, and to dole out mind, in such a fashion as to bring forward increasingly the fulfillment of what was expected of you.
In doubt a man of worth will trust to his own wisdom.
It is thrifty to prepare today for the wants of tomorrow.
Never complain and never explain.
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