In real life, coincidences happen all the time. In novels, they are leapt upon with fury.
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No, I don’t live in heartache. I don’t cry myself to sleep or any of that. I am, I tell myself, over it. But I do feel a void, icky as that sounds. And—like it or not—I still think about her every single day.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The speaker acknowledges moving on from heartbreak but still feels a persistent emptiness and continues to think about a past love.
In this quote, the speaker expresses a complex emotional state where, despite claiming to have moved on from the pain of a past relationship, there is an underlying feeling of emptiness and longing. This void serves as a reminder of the love that once was, indicating that healing is not a linear process and that remnants of past affections can linger, even when one outwardly appears to have recovered.
Themes
HeartacheEmptinessLoveMemoryMoving On
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a therapy session to discuss the complexities of healing from a relationship.
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