To the generous mind the heaviest debt is that of gratitude, when it is not in our power to repay it.
Benjamin FranklinRead
You and I were long friends: you are now my enemy, and I am yours.
Interpretation
Friendships can turn into enmities, reflecting the complexity of human relationships.
This quote by Benjamin Franklin highlights the fragile nature of relationships, suggesting that close friends can become enemies due to conflicts or disagreements. It serves as a reminder of how quickly bonds can shift and the importance of valuing and nurturing friendships before they deteriorate.
In practice
In a speech on resolving conflicts, you might refer to this quote to illustrate how friendships can sour.
To the generous mind the heaviest debt is that of gratitude, when it is not in our power to repay it.
He'll cheat without scruple, who can without fear.
[E]very Man who comes among us, and takes up a piece of Land, becomes a Citizen, and by our Constitution has a Voice in Elections, and a share in the Government of the Country.
Our Constitution is in actual operation; everything appears to promise that it will last; but in this world nothing is certain but death and taxes.
Let honesty and industry be thy constant companions, and spend one penny less than thy clear gains; then shall thy pocket begin to thrive; creditors will not insult, nor want oppress, nor hungerness bite, nor nakedness freeze thee
I think that a young state, like a young virgin, should modestly stay at home, and wait the application of suitors for an alliance with her; and not run about offering her amity to all the world; and hazarding their refusal. Our virgin is a jolly one; and tho at present not very rich, will in time be a great fortune, and where she has a favorable predisposition, it seems to me well worth cultivating.
I don't want enemies. I want friends, and I want them in all shapes, sizes, and colors, and loving whoever they want to.
There are no words to express the abyss between isolation and having one ally. It may be conceded to the mathematician that four is twice two. But two is not twice one; two is two thousand times one.
We cannot tell the precise moment when friendship is formed. As in filling a vessel drop by drop, there is at last a drop which makes it run over; so in a series of kindnesses there is at last one which makes the heart run over.
Old friendships are like meats served up repeatedly, cold, comfortless, and distasteful. The stomach turns against them.
Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.
All we can do is to make the best of our friends, love and cherish what is good in them, and keep out of the way what is bad.
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