We weren't allowing our hopes to become expectations. Expectations are tempting, pleasant, maybe necessary. They are scary too, once you have had some experience. They are not necessarily and not always a bucket of smoke, but they can be and are even likely to be.
As long as we insist on relating to it strictly on our own terms-as strange to us or subject to us-the wilderness is alien, threatening, fearful. We have no choice then but to become its exploiters, and to lose, by consequence, our place in it. It is only when, by humility, openness, generosity, courage, we make ourselves able to relate to it on its terms that it ceases to be alien.
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What this quote means
This quote emphasizes the importance of humility and openness in our relationship with nature, suggesting that we should engage with it on its own terms rather than solely from our perspective.
Wendell Berry's quote speaks to the idea that our relationship with nature is often marred by a sense of alienation and exploitation when we approach it with a self-centered mindset. By insisting on seeing the wilderness solely through our own lens—characterizing it as strange, threatening, or fearful—we become mere exploiters and risk losing our integral place within it. However, through a practice of humility, openness, and courage to connect with nature on its own terms, we can foster a more harmonious relationship, transforming the wilderness from an alien entity into a familiar part of our existence.
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Example use cases
This quote is perfect for a speech about environmental conservation during Earth Day celebrations.
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