Asking the proper question is the central action of transformation- in fairy tales, in analysis, and in individuation. The key question causes germination of consciousness. The properly shaped question always emanates from an essential curiosity about what stands behind. Questions are the keys that cause the secret doors of the psyche to swing open.
We are all filled with a longing for the wild. There are few culturally sanctioned antidotes for this yearning. We were taught to feel shame for such a desire. We grew our hair long and used it to hide our feelings. But the shadow of Wild Woman still lurks behind us during our days and in our nights. No matter where we are, the shadow that trots behind us is definitely four-footed.
Interpretation
What this quote means
This quote expresses a deep-seated desire for freedom and the natural instincts that society often teaches us to suppress.
Clarissa Pinkola Estes highlights the intrinsic connection between humans and the wild, suggesting that despite societal restrictions and cultural shame associated with our primal instincts, there exists an enduring yearning for freedom and authenticity. The metaphor of the 'wild woman' symbolizes the untamed aspects of our nature that continue to exist within us, reminding us that our true selves rebel against the confines of social norms, urging us to reconnect with our wild essence.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used in a speech about reconnecting with nature during an environmental conference.
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