My dear heart, never think you are better than others. Listen to their sorrows with compassion. If you want peace, don't harbor bad thoughts, do not gossip and don't teach what you do not know.
Look at me as many times as you wish, _x000D_ but you won’t get to know me! _x000D_ Since you have last seen me, _x000D_ I’ve changed a hundred times!
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the idea that true understanding of a person goes beyond superficial observation, as people are constantly evolving.
In this quote by Rumi, the poet invites others to look at him multiple times, yet he asserts that they will never truly know him. This reflects a profound philosophical insight into the nature of identity and personal transformation: individuals are not static; they change continuously due to experiences, thoughts, and feelings. Therefore, to truly know someone requires more than mere observation; it necessitates deep engagement and understanding of their journey.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about personal growth, this quote could illustrate how much a person can change over time.
More from Rumi
All quotes →The Law of Wonder rules my life at last, _x000D_ ...I burn each second of my life to Love _x000D_ Each second of my life burns out in Love _x000D_ In each leaping second Love lives afresh.
Lovers have heartaches _x000D_ That can't be cured by drugs _x000D_ Or sleep, _x000D_ Or games, _x000D_ But only by seeing their beloved.
Every fragile beauty, every perfect forgotten sentence, you grieve their going away, but that is not how it is. Where they come from never goes dry. It is an always flowing spring.
Whatever you keep hidden in your heart, God _x000D_ manifests in you outwardly. Whatever the root of _x000D_ the tree feeds on in secret, affects the bough and _x000D_ the leaf.
Come on sweetheart let's adore one another before there is no more of you and me
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