It's easy to get rid of things when there is an obvious reason for doing so. It's much more difficult when there is no compelling reason.
Marie KondoRead
A lot of people agree that tidying is connected to how we live, and even though, outside of Japan, houses might be bigger, people have more things than they need.
Interpretation
Tidying reflects our lifestyle choices and the clutter in our lives often denotes excess.
Marie Kondo suggests that the process of tidying up is deeply linked to our way of living. Despite larger living spaces in some countries outside Japan, many people tend to accumulate excess belongings that are unnecessary, leading to clutter. This observation highlights a cultural difference in how material possessions are viewed and managed, emphasizing the importance of simplicity and intentionality in one's living environment.
In practice
In a workshop about minimalism, this quote can be used to illustrate the significance of decluttering.
It's easy to get rid of things when there is an obvious reason for doing so. It's much more difficult when there is no compelling reason.
Keep only those things that speak to your heart. Then take the plunge and discard all the rest. By doing this, you can reset your life and embark on a new lifestyle.
Effective tidying involves only three essential actions. All you need to do is take the time to examine every item you own, decide whether or not you want to keep it, then choose where to put what you keep. Designate a place for each thing.
The objective of cleaning is not just to clean, but to feel happiness living within that environment.
Have gratitude for the things you're discarding. By giving gratitude, you're giving closure to the relationship with that object, and by doing so, it becomes a lot easier to let go.
It's going to be labor-intensive and time-consuming, but you need to take all the books down and put them on the floor. Take them down and spread them in one area. Physically pick each book up, one by one. If the book inspires you, keep it. If not, it goes out. That's the standard by which you decide.
A sentimentalist is simply one who desires to have the luxury of an emotion without paying for it.
You've got to learn to accept the law of life, and face the fact that we disintegrate slowly.
The first act of violence that patriarchy demands of males is not violence toward women. Instead patriarchy demands of all males that they engage in acts of psychic self-mutilation, that they kill off the emotional parts of themselves. If an individual is not successful in emotionally crippling himself, he can count on patriarchal men to enact rituals of power that will assault his self-esteem.
I understood that there was no escaping the memories, that I was surround by them. (p.30)
Actors are exposed in a way that nobody else can understand. They are subject to the likes and dislikes of people their entire life, no matter how successful they are. At the same time, in order to be liked, you have to not be yourself. So it's a very complicated human exercise - an alchemy that I have never understood.
Whatsoever that be within us that feels, thinks, desires, and animates, is something celestial, divine, and, consequently, imperishable.
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