A lot of times, rather than helping people with horse problems, I'm helping horses with people problems.
Interpretation
This quote highlights the idea that many issues with horses stem from the behavior and mindset of their owners rather than the animals themselves.
Buck Brannaman's quote emphasizes the notion that the root cause of many horse-related challenges often lies in the relationship between the horse and its owner. Instead of just addressing the horse's issues, he finds that much of his work involves guiding the owners to understand themselves better and improve their interactions with their horses. This speaks to the broader theme of how personal behavior and emotional health can significantly impact our relationships with others, whether human or animal.
In practice
In a seminar on horsemanship, this quote can be used to emphasize the importance of self-awareness in training.
I've started horses since I was 12 years old and have been bit, kicked, bucked off and run over. I've tried every physical means to contain my horse in an effort to keep from getting myself killed. I started to realize that things would come much easier for me once I learned why a horse does what he does.
We spoke about our dreams and how we always felt safe in them, no matter how bad everthing else seemed. He told me it was one of the best days of his life and then he took out his gun. A .22 rifle. And he leaned forward and whispered, "Forgive me, Taylor Markham." Before I could ask how he knew my name and what I was to forgive him for he said, "Take care of my little girl." And then he told me to close my eyes. And I've been frightened to do just that ever since.
She had an air of seeming to wait, as if for a man to get through with something more important than herself, a battle or an operation, during which he must not be hurried or interfered with. When the man had finished she would be waiting, without fret or impatience, somewhere on a highstool, turning the pages of a newspaper.
Many people believe that introversion is about being antisocial, and that's really a misperception. Because actually it's just that introverts are differently social. So they would prefer to have a glass of wine with a close friend as opposed to going to a loud party full of strangers.
There are three kinds of yeses. There's commitment, confirmation, and counterfeit. People are most used to giving the counterfeit yes because they've been trapped by the confirmation yes so many times. So the way you master no is understanding what really happens when somebody says 'no.' When yes is commitment, no is protection.
Don't ever play with someone's feelings, you could win the game but you could lose that person forever.
Ah men, why do you want all this attention? I can write poems for myself, make love to a doorknob if absolutely necessary. What do you have to offer me I can't find otherwise except humiliation? Which I no longer need.
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