It seemed to be a necessary ritual that he should prepare himself for sleep by meditating under the solemnity of the night sky... a mysterious transaction between the infinity of the soul and the infinity of the universe.
Love, in the eyes of the world, is either a carnal appetite or a vague fancy, which possession extinguishes or absence destroys. That is why it is commonly said, with a strange abuse of words, that passion does not endure.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is often misunderstood as mere desire or frivolous emotion, and its true essence can fade with possession or separation.
In this quote, Victor Hugo critiques the superficial understanding of love that society often holds. He emphasizes how love is reduced to a physical desire or fleeting whim, which can be extinguished by possession or destroyed by absence. Hugo suggests that this narrow view fails to capture the true, enduring nature of love, which goes beyond mere passion and desires a deeper connection. He points out the irony in labeling passion as something that does not last, when in reality, it is the depth of true love that transcends time and circumstance.
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In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used at a wedding ceremony to reflect on the deeper meaning of love.
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Forget not, never forget that you have promised me to use this silver to become an honest man.... Jean Valjean, my brother: you belong no longer to evil, but to good. It is your soul that I am buying for you. I withdraw it from dark thoughts and from the spirit of perdition, and I give it to God!
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We will not go to Heaven,Goetz, and even if we both entered it, we would not have eyes to see each other, nor hands to touch each other. Up there, God gets all the attention.... We can only love on this earth and against God.
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It was wonderful love that Christ should rather die for us than for the angels that fell. They were creatures of a more noble extract, and in all probability might have brought greater revenues of glory to God; yet that Christ should pass by those golden vessels, and make us clods of earth into stars of glory -- Oh, the hyperbole of Christ's love!
Let us not love by words alone, but let us love until it hurts.