Genuine good taste consists in saying much in few words, in choosing among our thoughts, in having order and arrangement in what we say, and in speaking with composure.
Francois FenelonRead
That love of self, which the world advocates, is a thousand times more dangerous than any poison.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Self-love can be detrimental when it becomes excessive and toxic.
This quote by Francois Fenelon suggests that the kind of self-love promoted by societal norms can lead to negative consequences. Rather than fostering genuine self-acceptance, this form of self-love often leads individuals to become self-centered and disconnected from the needs of others, which can be much more harmful than any external threat.
Themes
Self-LoveDangerToxicNarcissismSelf-Acceptance
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about the dangers of narcissism in modern society.
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