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And you will remember that love is not getting, but giving; not a wild dream of pleasure, and a madness of desire — oh no, love is not that — it is goodness, and honour, and peace, and pure living — yes, love is that; and it is the best thing in the world, and the thing that lives longest.
Henry Van Dyke
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Love is about giving and embodying goodness rather than seeking personal pleasure.

This quote emphasizes that true love transcends selfish desires and fleeting pleasures. Instead, it focuses on the virtues of goodness, honor, peace, and pure living, suggesting that love nurtures the best qualities in humanity and endures far longer than mere physical or superficial experiences.

Themes

LoveGivingGoodnessHonorPeacePure Living

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding ceremony to highlight the essence of love between partners.

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