I try to stay a civilian, to live as a human, not as a poet.
Yehuda AmichaiRead
And as we stray further from love, we multiply the words. Had we remained together we could have become a silence.
Interpretation
Separation leads to an abundance of words and misunderstandings, while unity fosters true connection and silence.
Yehuda Amichai's quote reflects on the nature of love and communication. When love wanes, people often resort to excessive words to express their thoughts and feelings, which can lead to misunderstandings. In contrast, a strong bond allows for comfortable silence, suggesting that true understanding and connection do not always require verbal communication.
In practice
In a wedding speech to highlight the importance of connection over words.
I try to stay a civilian, to live as a human, not as a poet.
Romantic poses aside, let us recognize that "falling in love"...is an inferior state of mind, a form of transitory imbecility.
One of the basic needs of every human being is the need to be loved, to have our wishes and feelings taken seriously, to be validated as people who matter.
To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest fear. But to be fully known and truly loved is, well, a lot like being loved by God. It is what we need more than anything. It liberates us from pretense, humbles us out of our self-righteousness, and fortifies us for any difficulty life can throw at us.
And for just a fleeting moment, a tiny wisp of time that hung in the air like fireflies in summer skies, she wondered if she was in love with him again.
I've had some wonderful love affairs and some that didn't work out. I don't want to dwell on that and I don't want to put people down, but I think all the fabulous places I've been, the wonderful things that have happened for me, the great people I've met - that ought to make a story.
A woman should be able to kiss a man beautifully and romantically without any desire to be either his wife or his mistress.
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