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The main motive for nonattachment is a desire to escape from the pain of living, and above all from love, which, sexual or non-sexual, is hard work.
George Orwell
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Nonattachment arises from a desire to avoid the pains associated with relationships and love.

George Orwell suggests that the principle of nonattachment stems from the human instinct to evade the struggles and emotional labor that come with love and relationships. By stating that love, whether sexual or platonic, requires significant effort, he implies that people may choose nonattachment as a way to shield themselves from the inevitable suffering that accompanies deep connections.

Themes

NonattachmentPainLoveRelationshipsSuffering

In practice

Example use cases

In a discussion about emotional resilience, one might refer to this quote to highlight the challenges of loving deeply.

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