You fall out of your mother's womb, you crawl across open country under fire, and drop into your grave.
Quentin CrispRead
Mainstream people dislike homosexuality because they can't help concentrating on what homosexual men do to one another. And when you contemplate what people do, you think of yourself doing it. And they don't like that. That's the famous joke: I don't like peas, and I'm glad I don't like them, because if I liked them I would eat them and I hate them.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote discusses societal discomfort with homosexuality stemming from self-reflection and personal biases.
Quentin Crisp emphasizes that mainstream disapproval of homosexuality often arises from an inability to separate one's own actions from those they perceive others engaging in. This discomfort reflects a deeper existential engagement, where people project their aversions onto others, highlighting how personal biases shape societal norms and attitudes.
Themes
HomosexualitySocietyDiscomfortSelf-ReflectionBias
In practice
Example use cases
During a lecture on societal norms, one might quote Crisp to highlight the irrationality behind certain prejudices.
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