Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
Edward AbbeyRead
A man is not aware of his virtues (if any). Nevertheless, one hopes that they exist.
Interpretation
The quote suggests that individuals often lack awareness of their own positive qualities but still hope they possess them.
Edward Abbey's quote reflects a common human predicament: many people are oblivious to their strengths and virtues, yet they still yearn to believe they have redeeming qualities. This notion emphasizes the dichotomy between self-perception and self-worth, suggesting that humility and uncertainty about one's qualities are natural, even as one desires to be seen positively by others.
In practice
During a motivational speech about self-acceptance, one might quote this to highlight the importance of recognizing one's virtues.
Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
I love America because it is a confused, chaotic mess - and I hope we can keep it this way for at least another thousand years. The permissive society is the free society.
If it's knowledge and wisdom you want, then seek out the company of those who do real work for an honest purpose.
The earth is real. Only a fool, milking his cow, denies the cow's reality.
I believe in nothing that I cannot touch, kiss, embrace.... The rest is only hearsay.
Why can't we simply borrow what is useful to us from Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism, especially Zen, as we borrow from Christianity, science, American Indian traditions and world literature in general, including philosophy, and let the rest go hang? Borrow what we need but rely principally upon our own senses, common sense and daily living experience.
Fame is a form of misunderstanding.
That which is not good for the bee-hive cannot be good for the bees.
History isn't the lies of the victors, as I once glibly assured Old Joe Hunt; I know that now. It's more the memories of the survivors, most of whom are neither victorious or defeated.
Cities can be places that represent the best of our ideals: where Americans of all different backgrounds can come together and, through their interactions, and even through their unity, spawn true American greatness.
The middle class is doing fine in fiction. But it's not what gets me going. I love the working class, and everyone from it I've met, and think they're incredibly witty, inventive - there's a lot of poetry there.
At bottom, the battle has been waged on moral grounds. The country has debated whether a society for which the dignity of the individual is the supreme value can, without a fundamental inconsistency, follow the practice of deliberately putting one of its members to death.
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