Art begins when a man, with a purpose of communicating to other people a feeling he once experienced, calls it up again within himself and expresses it by certain external signs.
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Man survives earthquakes, epidemics, the horrors of disease, and all the agonies of the soul, but for all time his tormenting tragedy is, and will be, the tragedy of the bedroom.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the deep emotional struggles and tragedies experienced in personal relationships, particularly in the context of intimacy.
Leo Tolstoy's quote highlights that while humanity can endure and overcome numerous external disasters and hardships, the most profound suffering often arises from personal relationships, particularly those occurring in the private sphere of the bedroom. This statement suggests that the complexities of love, intimacy, and personal connection create a unique form of tragedy that is persistent and deeply ingrained in the human experience.
Themes
RelationshipsTragedyLoveIntimacySuffering
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the emotional challenges faced in romantic relationships.
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