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A man must not always tell all, for that be folly; but what a man says should be what he thinks.
Michel De Montaigne
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Interpretation

What this quote means

It's wise to choose carefully what to share, ensuring that expressed thoughts reflect true beliefs.

This quote by Michel De Montaigne highlights the importance of discretion in communication. It suggests that while one should not divulge every thought or feeling, it is essential that the words spoken are genuine and represent one's true beliefs. This reflects a balance between honesty and caution in expressing oneself, indicating that thoughtfulness in communication is a sign of wisdom.

Themes

CommunicationDiscretionWisdomHonestyThoughtfulness

In practice

Example use cases

During a team meeting to emphasize the importance of aligning words with beliefs.

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