Many adult bullies hide behind the idea that bullying happens only among children. They conceive of themselves as adults who know better and are offering their hard-earned wisdom to others. The Internet makes that sort of certainty easier to attain: looking at their screens, adult bullies rarely see the impact of their words and actions.
Interpretation
Adult bullies often justify their behavior by denying that bullying exists in adulthood.
This quote highlights the misconception that bullying is solely a childhood behavior, illustrating how some adults rationalize their harmful actions by believing they are providing wisdom rather than inflicting harm. With the anonymity of the internet, these adults can detach themselves from the consequences of their bullying, leading to a lack of accountability for their hurtful words and actions.
In practice
In discussions about workplace dynamics, this quote can be used to highlight the prevalence of adult bullying.
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If the other person injures you, you may forget the injury; but if you injure him you will always remember.
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I shall commit my thoughts to paper, it is true; but that is a poor medium for the communication of feeling. I desire the company of a man who could sympathize with me, whose eyes would reply to mine.
Only enemies speak the truth; friends and lovers lie endlessly, caught in the web of duty.
If you are not capable of being alone, your relationship is false. It is just a trick to avoid your loneliness, nothing else.
Love, children, and work, are the great sources of fertilizing contact between the individual and the rest of the world.
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