Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
Marriage is like life - it is a field of battle, not a bed of roses.
Interpretation
Marriage requires effort and can be challenging, similar to the struggles of life.
This quote suggests that marriage, much like life itself, is filled with challenges and conflicts that require resilience and hard work. It highlights the misconception that marriage is always easy and blissful, represented by a 'bed of roses,' instead asserting that it often involves dealing with difficulties and striving for harmony, akin to a 'field of battle.'
In practice
Sharing this quote during a wedding speech to emphasize the importance of perseverance in marriage.
Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in time of sorrow.
That man is a success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.
His past was fairly blameless; few men could read the rolls of their life with less apprehension; yet he was humbled to the dust by the many ill things he had done, and raised up again into sober and fearful gratitude by the many he had come so near to doing, yet avoided.
The habit of being happy enables one to be freed, or largely freed, from the domination of outward conditions.
It is the history of our kindnesses that alone make this world tolerable. If it were not for that, for the effect of kind words, kind looks, kind letters . . . I should be inclined to think our life a practical jest in the worst possible spirit.
If we want a beloved community, we must stand for justice, have recognition for difference without attaching difference to privilege.
At my worst, I even resented Nic because an addict, at least when high, has a momentary respite from his suffering. There is no similar relief for parents or children or husbands or wives or others who love them.
Let us forget and forgive injuries.
If you approach each new person you meet in a spirit of adventure, you will find yourself endlessly fascinated by the new channels of thought and experience and personality that you encounter.
Fame allows you a lot of opportunities to experience new things and connect with people. But on the other hand, people's perceptions of you can limit the scope of your relationships with them. You walk both lines.
Compassion is the ability to understand how difficult it is for people to be the best of what they want to be at all times.
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