A melancholy lesson of advancing years is the realisation that you can't make old friends.
Interpretation
As we age, we come to understand the irreplaceable value of old friendships.
This quote reflects on how, as we grow older, we come to appreciate the significance of long-standing friendships that cannot be recreated. It emphasizes that deep, meaningful connections take time to develop, and the bonds we form in our youth become treasures that cannot easily be replaced.
In practice
During a speech at a reunion, one might quote this to emphasize the lasting bonds formed in youth.
In a public dialogue with Salman in London he [Edward Said] had once described the Palestinian plight as one where his people, expelled and dispossessed by Jewish victors, were in the unique historical position of being 'the victims of the victims': there was something quasi-Christian, I thought, in the apparent humility of that statement.
What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.
Never ask while you are doing it if what you are doing is fun. Don't introduce even your most reliably witty acquaintance as someone who will set the table on a roar.
[E]xceptional claims demand exceptional evidence.
The worst days are when you feel foggy in the head - chemo-brain they call it. It's awful because you feel boring. As well as bored. And stupid. And resigned.
Let me tell you something: for hundreds of thousands of years, this kind of discussion would have been impossible to have, or those like us would have been having it at the risk of our lives. Religion now comes to us in this smiley-face, ingratiating way β because itβs had to give so much more ground and because we know so much more. But youβve got no right to forget the way it behaved when it was strong, and when it really did believe that it had God on its side.
Friendship, like the immortality of the soul, is too good to be believed.
I think that women definitely have a special bond as friends that is hard to describe to men, and we don't often see that portrayed narratively.
Too few rejoice at a friend's good fortune.
The better part of one's life consists of his friendships.
There can be no friendship without confidence, and no confidence without integrity.
Robert Mapplethorpe, I met in 1967. He was a student at Pratt, though even as a student a fully formed artist. We went through many things in our life together. He became my loved one, then my best friend.
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