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In our memories, there is a graveyard where we bury our dead. They all lie there together, the loved ones and the ones we hated, friends and foes and kin, with no distinction among them. We have to mourn every one of them, because our memories have made them as much a part of us as our bones or our skin. If we don't, we've no right to remember anything at all.
Steven Brust
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote reflects on the nature of memory and loss, emphasizing how all our relationships, positive or negative, shape our identity.

In this quote, Steven Brust explores the complex nature of our memories and how they contribute to our sense of self. He suggests that we carry not just the memories of those we loved, but also those we disliked, blurring the lines between friends and foes. Mourning all these relationships is portrayed as essential, as each one profoundly impacts us, making them inseparable from our being. Ignoring this mourning means denying a part of our lived experiences and the memories that form our identity.

Themes

MemoryMourningIdentityRelationshipsLoss

In practice

Example use cases

In a eulogy, to reflect on the complexity of relationships in a person's life.

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