The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them.
Francois De La RochefoucauldRead
Why is it that our memory is good enough to retain the least triviality that happens to us, and yet not good enough to recollect how often we have told it to the same person?
Interpretation
Our memory can recall trivial details but often forgets repeated conversations with others.
This quote reflects on the paradox of human memory, where we are capable of remembering insignificant details that occur in our lives, yet we struggle to remember how often we have shared those same details with others. It suggests a commentary on the nature of memory and how our minds prioritize certain information over other, often more significant interactions.
In practice
During a talk on the nature of memory, this quote can illustrate the complexities of how we remember events.
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