We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through life creating experiences to match our beliefs. Look back in your own life and notice how often you have gone through the same experience.
Louise L. HayRead
'Men don't cry!' 'Women can't handle money!' What limiting ideas to live with.
Interpretation
The quote highlights the restrictive beliefs about gender roles that can hinder personal growth and expression.
Louise L. Hay challenges traditional stereotypes associated with gender, emphasizing that such limiting beliefs—like the idea that men should not express vulnerability by crying or that women are incapable of managing finances—can confine individuals and prevent them from reaching their full potential. This quote encourages self-reflection and the questioning of societal norms that dictate how we should behave based on our gender.
In practice
This quote can be used in discussions about gender equality during a workshop.
We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through life creating experiences to match our beliefs. Look back in your own life and notice how often you have gone through the same experience.
No person, no place, and no thing has any power over us, for 'we' are the only thinkers in our mind. When we create peace and harmony and balance in our minds, we will find it in our lives.
If you want to understand your parents more, get them to talk about their own childhood; and if you listen with compassion, you will learn where their fears and rigid patterns come from. Those people who 'did all that stuff to you' were just as frightened and scared as you are.
I believe we create our own lives. And we create it by our thinking, feeling patterns in our belief system. I think we're all born with this huge canvas in front of us and the paintbrushes and the paint, and we choose what to put on this canvas.
Forgiveness is for yourself because it frees you. It lets you out of that prison you put yourself in.
It seems to me that everyone on this planet whom I know or have worked with is suffering from self-hatred and guilt to one degree or another. The more self-hatred and guilt we have, the less our lives work. The less self-hatred and guilt we have, the better our lives work, on all levels.
We are all affecting the world every moment, whether we mean to or not.
Everything that happens to us is a reflection of who we are.
Such is the cost of immortality. No person is whole. No person is free. Over time, some have determined that the only way to live is to die. In death, a man or a woman is free of the weight of the past [and the future].
To follow imperfect, uncertain, or corrupted traditions, in order to avoid erring in our own judgment, is but to exchange one danger for another.
The person who forgets the ultimate is a slave to the immediate.
The goal and target of our life is He, the Christ who awaits us -- each one singly and altogether -- to lead us across the boundaries of time to the eternal embrace of the God who loves us.
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