When men die, they die in fear", he said. "They take everything they need from you, and as a doctor it is your job to give it, to comfort them, to hold their hand. But children die how they have been living - in hope. They don't know what's happening, so they expect nothing, they don't ask you to hold their hand - but you end up needing them to hold yours. With children, you're on your own. Do you understand?
Interpretation
The quote reflects on the contrasting experiences of adults and children in facing death.
Tea Obreht's quote highlights the stark difference between how men and children confront the reality of death. While adults face death burdened by fear and a sense of loss, children approach it with innocence and hope, often surprising caregivers with their resilience. The quote underlines the emotional toll on caregivers, who find themselves seeking comfort from the very children they are trying to support, emphasizing the profound and unexpected lessons that arise in moments of vulnerability.
In practice
This quote can be used in a eulogy to emphasize the innocence of children in the face of loss.
Suddenness," he says. " You do not prepare, you do not explain, you do not apologize. Suddenly, you go. And with you, you take all contemplation, all consideration of your own departure. All the suffering that would have come from knowing comes after you are gone, and you are not a part of it.
Skating takes up 70 percent of my time, school about 25 percent. Having fun and talking to my friends, 5 percent. It's hard. I envy other kids a lot of things, but I get a guilt trip when I'm not training.
Gilbert darling, don't let's ever be afraid of things. It's such dreadful slavery. Let's be daring and adventurous and expectant. Let's dance to meet life and all it can bring to us, even if it brings scads of trouble and typhoid and twins!" (Anne to Gilbert)
Life is a train that stops at no stations; you either jump abroad or stand on the platform and watch as it passes.
Oh, I know I'll improve. It's just that my life is a perfect graveyard of buried hopes now. That's a sentence I read once, and I say it over to comfort myself in these times that try the soul.
We'll fill our lives with what we cultivate the most. Plant grace by the acre.
It's that idea that you can have one drink - and no you can't. Within a week I was drinking heavily. It was so quick that even I was like, 'Wow.' Because you have that initial warm feeling going, 'Oh, I remember this'. And your body does, too. And your body goes, 'Yeah, so do I'. Then the demon voice comes, 'Yeah, so do I. You know what would be great? You know we bought a little bottle before? A full bottle would be wonderful'.
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