What was any art but a mould in which to imprison for a moment the shining elusive element which is life itself - life hurrying past us and running away, too strong to stop, too sweet to lose.
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Men are all right for friends, but as soon as you marry them they turn into cranky old fathers, even the wild ones. They begin to tell you what's sensible and what's foolish, and want you to stick at home all the time. I prefer to be foolish when I feel like it, and be accountable to nobody.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote humorously reflects on the changes in men after marriage, suggesting that they become more controlling and responsible.
Willa Cather's quote addresses the transformation that occurs in men's behavior once they enter into a marriage. It suggests that while companionship and friendship are appealing, the responsibilities and expectations of marriage can stifle a sense of freedom and playfulness. Cather humorously conveys a desire for the autonomy to act foolishly and not be subject to the constraints often imposed by marital roles.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsFreedomHumorExpectations
In practice
Example use cases
Using this quote during a toast at a wedding to lighten the mood.
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