I felt like we had stories about family loyalty; I didn't feel like we had stories about what to do when you felt that loyalty to your family was in conflict with loyalty to yourself.
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I had a mental breakdown while doing my Ph.D. at Cambridge, soon after I cut off contact with my parents, and I started seeing the university counsellor, one of the best decisions I ever made. There's something very nourishing in setting aside an hour a week to talk.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The importance of seeking help during challenging times can lead to personal growth and healing.
In this quote, Tara Westover reflects on her experience of facing a mental breakdown during her Ph.D. studies and highlights the significance of seeking support from a counselor. She emphasizes that dedicating time to discuss one's thoughts and feelings can be a vital step toward healing and personal development, illustrating the nourishing effect of open communication about mental health.
Themes
Mental HealthCounselingSupportPersonal GrowthCommunication
In practice
Example use cases
In a mental health awareness campaign, this quote could highlight the importance of seeking help.
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