Rule your mind with serenity rather than with force and manipulation.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes the importance of calm and peaceful control over oneβs thoughts rather than using aggression or coercion.
Laozi highlights that true mastery over oneself comes not from forceful control or manipulation of one's mind but through serenity and tranquility. This approach fosters a more profound understanding of oneself and the world, leading to wisdom and inner peace, rather than stress and conflict that often accompany forceful methods.
In practice
In a meditation workshop, to encourage participants to find inner peace instead of being overwhelmed by stress.
If you understand others you are smart._x000D_ If you understand yourself you are illuminated._x000D_ If you overcome others you are powerful._x000D_ If you overcome yourself you have strength._x000D_ If you know how to be satisfied you are rich._x000D_ If you can act with vigor, you have a will._x000D_ If you don't lose your objectives you can be long-lasting._x000D_ If you die without loss, you are eternal.
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The man who backbites an absent friend, nay, who does not stand up for him when another blames him, the man who angles for bursts of laughter and for the repute of a wit, who can invent what he never saw, who cannot keep a secret -- that man is black at heart: mark and avoid him.
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Do not be too hard, lest you be broken; do not be too soft, lest you be squeezed.
It is not indeed certain, that the most refined caution will find a proper time for bringing a man to the knowledge of his own failing, or the most zealous benevolence reconcile him to that judgment by which they are detected; but he who endeavours only the happiness of him whom he reproves will always have either the satisfaction of obtaining or deserving kindness; if he succeeds, he benefits his friend; and if he fails, he has at least the consciousness that he suffers for only doing well.
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