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My mother wanted me to join the Indian army, as the army was seen as a decent and respectable career to have. I shocked my mother by telling her that I wanted to be a writer.
Ruskin Bond
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What this quote means

The quote illustrates the conflict between parental expectations and personal aspirations.

In this quote, Ruskin Bond expresses a moment of personal revelation that diverges from his mother's hopes for his future. While she envisioned him pursuing a stable and reputable career in the Indian army, he instead reveals his passion for writing, highlighting the importance of following one's own dreams despite societal or familial pressures. This sentiment underscores the universal struggle between conforming to family expectations and seeking personal fulfillment.

Themes

MotherWritingCareerAspirationExpectation

In practice

Example use cases

During a motivational speech about following one's dreams.

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