It is not good for all our wishes to be filled; through sickness we recognize the value of health; through evil, the value of good; through hunger, the value of food; through exertion, the value of rest.
Dorothy Canfield FisherRead
A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make leaning unnessary.
Interpretation
A mother empowers her children to stand on their own rather than relying on her.
This quote emphasizes the role of a mother as a nurturer who fosters independence in her children. Rather than being a crutch that children lean on, a mother provides the support, wisdom, and strength essential for them to develop their own capabilities and confidence to face life's challenges.
In practice
In a speech about parenting at a local community event.
It is not good for all our wishes to be filled; through sickness we recognize the value of health; through evil, the value of good; through hunger, the value of food; through exertion, the value of rest.
You hear a lot of dialogue on the death of the American family. Families aren't dying. They're merging into big conglomerates.
I knew how much it hurt to be the daughter of people who can't see you, not even if you are standing in front of them stomping your feet.
Reading was a huge part of my life as a child - we were a family of storytellers.
Well now, I'd rather have you than a dozen boys, Anne,' said Matthew patting her hand. 'Just mind you that β rather than a dozen boys. Well now, I guess it wasn't a boy that took the Avery scholarship, was it? It was a girl β my girl β my girl that I'm proud of.
And everything else will then turn out to be unimportant and inessential except this: father, child, and love. And then, looking at the simplest things, we will all say, Could we have not learned this long ago? Has this not always been embedded in everything that is?
I cut grass, I did yard work, I did roofing, I cleaned basements to take care of my family.
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