In memoir, you have to be particularly careful not to alienate the reader by making the material seem too lived-in. It mustn't have too much of the smell of yourself, otherwise the reader will be unable to make it her own.
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To become a mother is to learn a whole language - to relearn it, perhaps, as it was the tongue to which we were born - and hence gain entrance to a forgotten world of comprehension.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Being a mother involves learning and understanding a deep, intrinsic language of love and care.
This quote emphasizes that motherhood is not only about nurturing a child but also about rediscovering and learning a unique way of communicating and understanding the world from a maternal perspective. It highlights the profound connection between a mother and her child, suggesting that this bond allows one to access a deeper level of comprehension and emotional richness that might have been forgotten over time.
Themes
MotherhoodLanguageComprehensionConnectionLove
In practice
Example use cases
During a Mother's Day speech, you can use this quote to highlight the unique bond between mothers and their children.
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