When we don't like to face up to hard facts, we use soft words. We do not speak about killing a baby within the womb, but about "termination of potential life." Words are often multiplied to try to cover dark deeds.
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Those who do too much for their children will soon find they can do nothing with their children. So many children have been so much done for they are almost done in.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Overindulging children can lead to their inability to be self-sufficient.
This quote by Neal A. Maxwell highlights the consequences of excessive help and support given to children by their parents. It suggests that when parents do everything for their children, those children may struggle to develop independence and autonomy, ultimately hindering their personal growth and problem-solving abilities.
Themes
ParentingIndependenceChildrenSupportGrowth
In practice
Example use cases
A parenting seminar discussing the balance of support versus independence.
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