Death is staring too long into the burning sun and the relief of entering a cool, dark room.
Elisabeth Kubler-RossRead
There is not much sense in suffering, since drugs can be given for pain, itching, and other discomforts. The belief has long died that suffering here on earth will be rewarded in heaven. Suffering has lost its meaning.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Suffering is often unnecessary and can be alleviated, as it's no longer seen as a virtue with spiritual rewards.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross emphasizes that suffering does not have inherent value or meaning, especially when medical solutions can alleviate physical discomfort. The traditional belief that earthly suffering leads to heavenly rewards is outdated, suggesting that instead of enduring pain, we should seek relief and redefine our understanding of suffering's role in life.
Themes
SufferingPainBeliefReliefLife
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about mental health, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of seeking help instead of suffering in silence.
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