You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do.
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You can be shaped, or you can be broken. There is not much in between. Try to learn. Be coachable. Try to learn from everybody, especially those who fail. This is hard. ... How promising you are as a Student of the Game is a function of what you can pay attention to without running away.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We have a choice to learn from our experiences or be defeated by them. Embracing lessons from failure is essential for growth.
This quote emphasizes the importance of being adaptable and receptive to learning, particularly from failure. David Foster Wallace suggests that our growth as individuals is contingent upon our ability to face challenges and heed the lessons they offer. In the pursuit of knowledge and personal development, being coachable and attentive, especially in the presence of setbacks, defines our potential as learners and achievers.
Themes
LearningFailureGrowthCoachableStudentAttention
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming challenges.
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