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He doubted her. You must never doubt the one you love. But they might not be telling the truth. Never mind that. You tell them the truth. What do you mean? You can't be another person's honesty, child, but you can be your own. So what should I say? When? When I love someone? You should say it.
Jeanette Winterson
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Trust and honesty are vital in love, but each person is responsible for their own truth.

In this quote, Jeanette Winterson emphasizes the importance of trust and honesty in loving relationships. While one may doubt their partner and question their truthfulness, the individual must ultimately focus on being truthful themselves, maintaining their own integrity in the relationship irrespective of the other's honesty.

Themes

LoveTrustHonestyRelationshipsTruth

In practice

Example use cases

In a wedding speech to emphasize the importance of honesty in love.

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