A dogmatic belief in objective value is necessary to the very idea of a rule which is not tyranny or an obedience which is not slavery.
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Before we can be cured we must want to be cured. Those who really wish for help will get it; but for many modern people even the wish is difficult.
Interpretation
What this quote means
To be helped or healed, one must truly desire it, yet many struggle to even wish for assistance.
C. S. Lewis emphasizes the importance of a genuine desire for change or healing as a prerequisite for receiving help. He suggests that while many might need support, the struggle to even acknowledge this need can prevent them from attaining it, highlighting a vital aspect of human psychology in the context of personal growth and healing.
Themes
HealingDesireHelpChangeHuman Psychology
In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about personal growth, one could use this quote to illustrate the importance of wanting change.
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