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Be neat, Philothea; let nothing be negligent about you. It is a kind of contempt of those with whom we converse, to frequent their company in uncomely apparel; but, at the same time, avoid all affectation, vanity, curiosity, or levity in your dress. Keep yourself always, as much as possible, on the side of plainness and modesty, which, without doubt, is the greatest ornament of beauty, and the best excuse for the want of it.
Saint Francis De Sales
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Maintain a neat and modest appearance while avoiding vanity, as it's a sign of respect to others.

This quote by Saint Francis De Sales emphasizes the importance of presenting oneself neatly and modestly, suggesting that neglecting one's appearance can be seen as disrespectful to those around us. It advocates for plainness and simplicity in dress, arguing that these qualities can enhance one's beauty and serve as an acceptable justification for any lack thereof while encouraging humility over vanity.

Themes

NeatnessModestyAppearanceRespectSimplicity

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about professional attire, one might quote this to emphasize the importance of dressing respectfully for business meetings.

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